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Marriage
with the intention of divorcing after a period of time
Question:
A person is going abroad to study and he wants to protect
his chastity there by getting married for a specific period
of time. Afterwards, he will divorce his wife although he
does not inform her that he is planning on divorcing after
a specific time period. What is the ruling concerning such
behavior?
Response:
Marriage with the intention of divorce must fall into one
of two cases:
First,
it is explicitly stipulated in the marriage contract that
the marriage is for a month, year, until he finishes his studies
and so forth. This is known as muta. This is forbidden.
The
second case is where the person has that as his intention
[in his heart] but it is not put as a stipulation in the contract.
The widespread opinion among the Hanbalis is that that is
forbidden and the contract is void. They say that what is
intended is equivalent to what is actually stipulated, since
the Prophet (sal-Allaahu
`alayhe wa sallam)
said:
((Actions
are based on intentions and for everyone is what he intended)).
They
also say that if a man marries and plans on divorcing a thrice-divorced
woman simply in order to make her permissible for previous
husband, that marriage is not valid even if what was intended
is not stipulated in the marriage contract. Again, this is
what is intended is like what is stipulated. So if the intention
of making the wife "legal" for her previous husband makes
the contract null and void, the intention to perform [something
similar to] muta also makes the contract null and void. This
is the opinion of the Hanbalis.
The
second opinion among the scholars is that it is permissible
for the man to marry that woman with the intention that he
will divorce her after he leaves her land, such as those who
go to the West to study or for other purposes. They say that
it is sound because it is not stipulated in the contract and
this distinguishes it from muta. Furthermore, in the case
of muta, as soon as the period finishes, the two are separated
whether they still want that or not. In this case, though,
it could be the case that he desires his wife and decides
to remain with her. This is one of the opinions held by Shaykh
al-Islaam Ibn Taymiyyah.
In
my opinion, such a marriage is not muta since it does not
meet the definition of muta. However, it is still forbidden
since it is a type of deception of the wife and her family.
The Prophet (sal-Allaahu
`alayhe wa sallam)
has forbidden deception and mendacity. If the woman knew that
the man only intends to be married with her for that specific
time, she would not agree to the marriage nor would her family.
In the same way, he would not be pleased to marry his daughter
to a man who intends to divorce her when he has fulfilled
his needs from her. How can he be pleased with doing to others
what he would not be pleased to have done to himself? This
goes against the foundations of faith. The Prophet (sal-Allaahu
`alayhe wa sallam)
has stated:
((None
of you truly believes until he loves for his brother what
he loves for himself)).
I
have also heard that this opinion has led some people to do
something that none of the scholars would be in agreement
with. That is, some people travel to such lands with the sole
purpose of performing such a marriage and then they return
to their countries. This is also a greatly forbidden act.
Therefore, one must close the door that leads to such a possible
practice. Furthermore, the act contains deception and cheating.
And it opens a very dangerous door since people, in general,
are ignorant and most of the people's desires will not keep
them from violating what Allaah has prohibited.
Shaykh
Ibn 'Uthaymeen
Fataawa al-Mar.ah
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