Husband calls his wife to bed, but she is ill & unable to respond to his call

Reference: Fataawa az-Zawaaj wa ‘Ishratun-Nisaa. – Question 72, Page 103

Question: Does the woman fall into sin if she refuses her husband when he calls her [to his bed] if she is suffering from a fleeting mental lapse, or she is ill and suffering from pain?

Response: It is obligatory upon the woman to respond to her husband if he calls her to his bed. However, if she is ill due to a mental lapse and is unable to face her husband, then in this situation it is not permissible for her husband to request her [to satisfy his [sexual] needs] as the Prophet (sal-Allaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said:

«There is to be no harm and no causing of harm».

And it is upon him to restrain himself and seek to satisfy [himself] with his wife in a manner which will not cause any harm [to her].

Abu 'Abdullaah

About Abu 'Abdullaah

- from London, UK. He is a graduate of the Islaamic University of Madeenah, having graduated from the Institute of Arabic Language, and later the Faculty of Sharee'ah in 2004.