I have a grandmother who is more than 140 years of age, and is [only] able to move a short distance.
My father does not pray, nor fast; he smokes, and he swears a lot and has a foul and obscene tongue. He has begun to oppress my mother, and I do not love him, and [instead] hate him for doing these things. [So] what is my obligation towards my father?
Who is responsible for [performing] hajj on behalf of the father & mother, if they are still alive, but are not able to perform hajj?
If the father of the patient disputed with his son (patient) in the matter of undergoing medical surgery, who’s decision takes precedence?
So is it right for me to go to these gatherings or not when they practice these innovations?