I am approaching 70; between me and 70 is [but] a year. If you were to ask me:
‘What is your advice to every Muslim?’ – listen to this, it is [just] one word:
Overlook things as much as you are able.
Tag: argument
Treatment for depression, anxiety, worry, and sadness
[As for] the reason [for depression or distress, then] I cannot know, because the causes of depression and distress are varied.
Dealing with worry, grief and sorrow
And among the benefits of this hadeeth is that the Sharee’ah distances itself from anything that leads to regret, dispute, or enmity. How so?
Reflect on what we want to share before sharing
If there is a dispute between two parties, it is wrong and sinful to share with either party what the other has said, because it may increase the division and dispute between them.
Sometimes I upset my husband and don’t apologise
Sometimes I upset my husband, which provokes his anger. [As a result], he boycotts me and keeps away from me.
People are of three types
People are of three types: Either he accepts the truth and adheres to it – then he is a wise person.
Argumentation
If you see a man arguing, then [know that] he loves leadership.
Quarrelling between my wife and my mother
I ask you to guide me to that which correct. I have been married for 5 years [now], and [unfortunately] there is always [some sort of] quarrel in the family.
Due to their wicked character
If Allaah intends evil for the people [due to their wicked character], He opens for them [the door to] argumentation and denies them [righteous] action[s].
Do not sit with the people of innovation and desires
Do not sit with the people of innovation and desires, nor argue with them, nor listen to them.