And do not say “may Allaah deal with you” or “may Allaah break your back”, or what is similar to that.
He [’Azza wa Jall] began with the wife, because in her [being upon] goodness, there is goodness for [her] offspring.
[Regarding] the ‘umrah, if he (the son) wants to gift [the reward of] an ‘umrah to his deceased father, even though he (the father) had done ‘umrah himself…
My mother died whilst I was young, and so I hired someone trustworthy to perform hajj on her behalf. My father had also died, and I heard from some of my relatives that he himself had performed the hajj.
Whoever walks in front of his father, then he has disobeyed him, unless he walked [ahead] to remove [any] harm from his path.
Rather, pay full attention to them both, unless there is an urgent [and important] call which must be answered and cannot be delayed!