Reference: https://twitter.com/binothaymeen/status/1316000144651882499
الدعاء على الأولاد غلط، والذي يجب على المرء إذا فعل أولاده ما لاينبغي أن يدعو لهم بالهداية،كأن يقول:
أصلحك الله ياولدي!
لماذا تفعل كذا وكذا؟هداك الله يا ولدي!
لماذا تفعل كذا وكذا؟ولا يقول:أخذك الله
أو قصم ظهرك، أو
ما أشبه ذلك.فتاوى سؤال على الهاتف 1/ 146
للإمام #ابن_عثيمين— الإمام ابن عثيمين. (@Binothaymeen) October 13, 2020
Fataawa Su.aal ‘alal-Haatif v1 p146
advised:
Supplicating against the children is wrong!
If the children do something which is not befitting for them to have done, then that which is obligatory upon you is to supplicate [to Allaah] for their guidance. So you [should] say something like:
‘May Allaah rectify you O my child! Why did you do such-and-such?’
‘May Allaah guide you O my child! Why did you do such-and-such?’
And do not say ‘may Allaah deal with you’ or ‘may Allaah break your back’, or what is similar to that.
