It is not necessary for the one who makes istikhaarah that he see anything to guide him to that which is best for him. Rather, when something is made easy for him after having made istikhaarah, then he should know that is what is good [for him].
Tag: marriage
Making istikhaarah on behalf of someone else
And it is from falsehood to have someone else make istikhaarah for him, and wait to see something in a dream which would guide him to do [something] or leave [it].
Incapable of financially supporting his wife
“If the husband is incapable of financially supporting [his wife], then it is permissible for her to seek a divorce.”
Sometimes I upset my husband and don’t apologise
Sometimes I upset my husband, which provokes his anger. [As a result], he boycotts me and keeps away from me. I cannot apologise to him because I am very ashamed [of myself]; so if my husband remains angry [like this] with me, am I liable for [any] sin?
The Muslim is required to uphold the truth in all affairs
If, for example, the young lady has had surgery on her stomach, and the operation required an incision be made and then sewn up, and this was a very small procedure when she was giving birth – or after that by afew months, then are her family required to inform the one who has come to see her for marriage about this surgery, which has left a scar? And is this his legal right [to know] or not?
She no longer prays nor assumes hijaab
A brother says he has an infant daughter, and an infant son from a woman he divorced some 3 years ago because she does not pray nor assume hijaab.
Attaining marital bliss
Marital bliss is not attained by force or the imposition of control, indeed this is wrong.
Speaking to one another on the phone prior to marriage
If a man has proposed to a woman [by way of her walee], is it then permissible for him to speak to her on the telephone?
Do not marry your daughter to him
A man approached me to seek my daughter’s hand in marriage, and later it became apparent to me that he does not pray, so what should I do?
Reconciling between my parents and my wife
How should a Muslim reconcile between keeping his parents and happy and hi wife happy?