قال ابن عباس – رضي الله عنه – :
"اذكر أخاك إذا غاب عنك بما تحب أن يذكرك به، ودع منه ما تحب أن يدع منك"
العقد الفريد 184/3
— كناشة الفوائد (@Dawah16) February 8, 2018
al-‘aqd al-fareed – v3, p184
Ibn ‘Abbaas (radhi-yAllaahu ‘anhu) said:
In the absence of your brother, make mention of him with what you [yourself] would like to be remembered with, and do not make mention of him with what you [yourself] would not like to be mentioned of yourself.